I think it’s kind of stupid how most of the posts on tumblr that are about relationships victimize the girls. Like, they usually speak out to the guys telling them to treat their girls right and whatnot. I just think its unfair because girls are just as guilty of cheating, neglecting and forgetting as much as guys. Just saying.. I think those posts need to be more general. I know boys have been put out to be the bad guys since forever but they are the victims too. Yes, guys are supposed to be the gentlemen and treat their girls with respect and blah blah blah but sheesh, you can’t expect someone to stick around and treat you right if you don’t return the favor. No one wants to feel like someone’s bitch or unappreciated. I know for a fact that girls just don’t sit around on their bed crying their eyes out and feeling sad and sorry for themselves. A LOT cheat and a lot are the ones causing the problems and the fights and not trying. When people are hurt or mad, they just don’t sit around and let time pass. Most of the time they’ll do things that will get their emotions off their mind. They might regret it later but they’ll do it anyway because of the pain and that includes girls. Both genders are human beings and therefore capable of causing hurt to others. Stop pinning the blame on the guys.